addiction

I believe this statement to be true: "You tend to assess others through your own desires and inclinations." The horoscope from the other day couldn't be more on the dot....about wasting time....put so much effort into something that you wanted so bad...but it just didn't exist....living with the memories of the way things were, rather than opening your eyes to what was actually going on. I think many marriages deal with this all of the time. And I guess it is bound to happen...but is it possible to just grow apart from someone? Yeah, it sucks....but is it really a bad thing? And why is it bad? Is it bad because you are upset at this moment....will it benefit you to work though it? Or will the cycle continue to be a cycle?

I'm pretty certain that most people are set in their own ways. It grows even more apparent as the years go forward....if someone has problems, you either have to accept them for who they are and love them unconditionally or just realize that it wasn't the best situation...that you deserve more than what you were given. People try to change....they go to counseling....and trying to work through stuff, but can we really change the person?...chances are, no. Yeah, people can change...but what happens if the cycle continues? If you don't mind it, then go for it. Just be prepared that it might happen again.

Relationships can almost be like an addiction.....you know that it is bad for you...but you like the high...you like the feeling you get at that certain moment....but the thing is, that high doesn't last for ever and there is a slim chance that it won't ever be like the first time...it wears on your body and your mental state....makes you question everything....even things you were certain about before you had this "addiction." And like all addicts, most go back to the source over and over again....life just wasn't the same with out it right?