A day in review
I'm totally bushed tonight. I woke up fairly early (7am) and layed in bed. Isn't that just the greatest feeling? Just laying there with nothing to do, no one to bother me for the next few hours. It was awesome! I then managed to get dressed, get my nephew dressed and head off to get a bagel and coffee to start the morning. I was thouroughly enjoying my morning and decided to take the lil one to a park to play and where we could eat our bagels. So we get to the park and sit down to eat. He decides, it's time to take off on auntie. If you can imagine me in my semi-platform sandals running after this kid who just keeps on running. He is PURPOSELY running from me. I can't say anything or do anything to get this kid to stop. Now I'm pissed. Finally I catch up to him and set him down to make him eat and the little shit pushes it away. The terrible twos are here! The little shit! I was so ticked off that he wouldn't listen to anything I said that I eventually just put him in the car and took off.... not even letting him set foot on the playground. Here comes the funny part... smart little shit knew I was pissed off at him and really tried to kiss up then.
Talk about the good old days... I went to an engagement party for someone I've known for YEARS. We grew up together and this guy and my bro would always come home from school and eat "weiners (the on going joke)." His mother pulled out a picture of all of us kids at halloween time. I must have been 11.... if I could only get a copy of that picture... definately something to laugh at. Good times, good times. I can't believe he is getting married, but at least he has good taste. She's a beautiful girl who seems very caring.
So as you may have guessed it, I had to pass on my SF symphony concert. I completely forgot about this party. Damnit... and there isn't going to be another one like it for some time... Dvorak 8... I'll have to serenade myself to sleep tonight with it.
This guy ims me today.. it is obvious what he is interested in... one thing, you can name it. Well, that's fine and dandy. I, myself have been a little deprived lately too... so I kinda go with it. But the more I began to talk to this fool, the more I grew aware of the fact that women can't just put it out there. We have to be mentally and emotionally connected for anything remotely physical to happen. This brings me to another point, are women capable of just a "fuck buddy?" I'm fairly certain that the answer is a firm no. For myself, I have to be mentally stimulated by a guy to even think about anything else... my experience demonstrates that (especially in the last 6 months). And although some may be "capable" of it, it probably won't be good (my experience). Going back to the story of this guy... this guy just assumes that he can say something and bam.... I'll be at his door. Um, I think not... Shit, I'd probably have a better time with a vibrator. My point being? Singledom is still better than that bullshit.
Talk about the good old days... I went to an engagement party for someone I've known for YEARS. We grew up together and this guy and my bro would always come home from school and eat "weiners (the on going joke)." His mother pulled out a picture of all of us kids at halloween time. I must have been 11.... if I could only get a copy of that picture... definately something to laugh at. Good times, good times. I can't believe he is getting married, but at least he has good taste. She's a beautiful girl who seems very caring.
So as you may have guessed it, I had to pass on my SF symphony concert. I completely forgot about this party. Damnit... and there isn't going to be another one like it for some time... Dvorak 8... I'll have to serenade myself to sleep tonight with it.
This guy ims me today.. it is obvious what he is interested in... one thing, you can name it. Well, that's fine and dandy. I, myself have been a little deprived lately too... so I kinda go with it. But the more I began to talk to this fool, the more I grew aware of the fact that women can't just put it out there. We have to be mentally and emotionally connected for anything remotely physical to happen. This brings me to another point, are women capable of just a "fuck buddy?" I'm fairly certain that the answer is a firm no. For myself, I have to be mentally stimulated by a guy to even think about anything else... my experience demonstrates that (especially in the last 6 months). And although some may be "capable" of it, it probably won't be good (my experience). Going back to the story of this guy... this guy just assumes that he can say something and bam.... I'll be at his door. Um, I think not... Shit, I'd probably have a better time with a vibrator. My point being? Singledom is still better than that bullshit.
posted by Jenn & John at 2:23 AM
2 Comments:
God.. haven't you learned anythin from that episode of sex in the city? Of course women can have fuck buddies and not be attached... if you're having sex with someone and you're attached.. it's not a 'fuck buddy.' It's something more.
Mentally our mind can convince beforehand whether sex will be good or not.. before it even happens. That's why women are attracted to assholes.. they're thinking " ooh.. he's confident, dark and mysteriuos.. I'm sure he's good in bed.. etc.. etc.." It's all in your perception... what makes men think that a really hot girl is good in bed? Perception. .just because she's a piece of ass... when in reality she might not be.. but the 'perception' of it being there is making us think that. A real hot girl could be a terrible lay.. but because she's hot it's a good lay nonetheless...
Men also figure after a while.. 'what's the bother in getting feelings over someon?' it's just going to get all fucked up in the end anyway... so why bother? why put in the effort...
Too drunk to stay awake...
AS
Just as we may or may not mentally convince ourselves that sex will be good, women also probably try to convince themselves that it means nothing... it's just sex. So I guess the answer to are women capable of having just a fuck buddy... yes. However the point I was getting at was women are all emotion, so chances are they are just blocking that feeling of wanting more. Eh, it's all bullshit in the end and I'd rather not lie to myself... being alone hasn't turned out to be half bad.
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